Flame

A textured silicone sex toy, Flame has a fat bulbous tip and a nicely tapered body. Not too big, not too small. It's angled just so and easily straps into a harness. As dildos go, one could do worse. Plus, its fancy Tantric-style packaging can help convince reluctant sex toy users that Flame is spiritual. So masturbating with it is like getting back to nature or something. Which is good, right? Also available in various colors.